Helping Late Talkers Through Back-to-School Meltdowns

Kids are back to school — and with big changes come BIG emotions.

Here’s something many parents don’t know: late talkers or children with speech delays often have more frequent and intense tantrums. Why? Because it’s frustrating when you can’t fully express your wants, needs, or ideas. Just know that it is developmentally appropriate or your toddler to show BIG emotions during BIG changes. But if your toddler’s meltdowns seem a notch above the “average,” these tips are for you.

Every parent knows — tantrums are all about control.
To help your little one through these big moments, focus on what you can control:

• Provide transition time + info → Give a heads-up before leaving the house, talk about events coming up, or prep for changes in routine.

• Lean on routines → Predictable schedules help kids feel safe and know what’s coming next, which can calm big feelings.

• Do “dry runs” → New school? Drive by, chat about the teacher, and make the unknown feel exciting instead of scary.

• Prioritize safety → Keep your child (and yourself) safe, especially if their body gets involved in the tantrum.

• Breathe → A calm parent is the anchor a dysregulated child needs. Remember that a dysregulated parent cannot help a dysregulated child. Focus on keeping calm to help your little one through the moment.

And here’s the thing: if tantrums are becoming more frequent and intense, intervention can help. My course, The Tiny Talker Playbook, gives late talkers the tools to express themselves. The more they can say, the less frustrated they will feel. Click the link below to learn more!